Why I Will Never Achieve Greatness!

Why I will never achieve greatness? Greatness is defined by being GREAT.. rightt??? issittt??? haha......

Based on the study I made.. 

Study that I did? How? Google.com of course..... 

Greatness is defined as having the quality of being great. 

WTF? 

What does that mean? I don't even know. Let's find out what "greatness" means. Type this "define: greatness" in google.com. The results came out with all sorts of definition. The one I'm looking for is... Let's paste everything here.. Hahaha..

greatness

ˈgreɪtnəs/

noun

1. the quality of being great; eminence or distinction.

   "Elgar's greatness as a composer"

   synonyms:

   eminence, distinction, pre-eminence, illustriousness, lustre, repute,reputation, status, standing, high standing; More

Got it? Good...

There's a few reasons I can't achieve greatness.. 

A few? A few you say? You have loads! Loads of them.. I'm gonna cover only 5 of them...

1) Lack of determination to finish strong on what I started. Starting something is one thing. Starting a task, starting that assignment, starting to work or even starting to work on your dreams. Everybody can start doing something. But somewhere along the line I get tired, i get demotivated, i get yelled at, i get put down. And apparently I will succumb to this negativity and leave what I started. Not all of it though. I do finish what I started. Its just that I don't finish strong. I don't finish the way I envisioned it. 

2) I am AFRAID!! Afraid of Failure.. Afraid of the Journey.. Afraid of Success.. What? why? The question that I ask myself everyday.. It takes a lot to be great. Being afraid it not one of them. I have to remind myself that it is not that bad. That meeting that I'm about to attend, the presentation that I have to give. Man... we think about the worst possible outcome. But most of the time it's not that bad. It won't come close to even half of what your bad thoughts were. Just follow through..

3) Let other people talk me out of your dreams. I have no idea why sometimes I get these negative people in my head. Listening to them is one thing, but believing in what they are saying is a stupid thing to do. Sometimes they fail at what they do then they  want you to fail also. But you are the stupid one, cause you are the one who is listening and believing them. Man!! 

4) I have a severe habit of procrastinating. Dude.. Who doesn't right? But is it as bad as mine? Dunnoo...... Im procrastinating now........................................................................................... (Took me a few hours to write this one down).. hahahahaha.. Just do it!!

5) No sound plan. I have a plan. But it is just a plan. I don't have a detailed plan, a to-do-list, a calendar to track down the days on when I need something to be done at a certain point in time. Planning is everything...

People say that we need to identify and embrace our inner strength. But at the same time we need to embrace our weak points also to identify and eliminate it from the formula all together. Sometimes what I say does not make sense. But I think this one does.. hahaha..

How To Commit To Your Goals!

We set goals early of the year on what we want to achieve. Let it be from weight loss, change jobs, get married, make more money and lots more. Here are 5 ways to make sure that the goals we set are embedded in our head and hence make us commit to achieving it.

1) Write you goals on a piece of paper. Write it on a cardboard for that matter. Stick it where you can see it everyday. Make sure you are able to see it. Refer to it everyday. You need your goals to be embedded in you head before you go out of your room. Let it be your motivation.

2) Read your goals that you wrote out loud. You don't have to shout. Just read it so that you are able to hear your own voice. This will strengthen the will power. 

3) Set goals with time constrains for example, I want to earn $5000 by the end of the week. I want to open up my own bakery shop by the end of the month. Put in the date if you have to. Be more specific if you can. Do not be vague in setting your goals. Be specific!

4) Break your goals in achievable targets. Really plan how to get your targets. Be it a daily plan, weekly plan and a monthly plan. Just make sure you plan ahead. Write that down in a checklist format so that you can tick it out when it's done. It will really help when you write stuff down.

5) Visualize yourself getting to your goal. Visualize yourself achieving that goal. You need to be really in-tune with it. You have to put your emotions into it. Visualize it in a way that you have already got it!! It will definitely push you to the next level!

These are just 5 ways to get yourself to commit to your goals. There are a lot more ways to do it. This is my personal favorite. Hope it helps. Peace out. 

It's been awhile..

Asslamua'laikum dudes and dudettes, did I Spell that right?.. I think I got it right..

It has been so long since I blogged. Freaking... damn long. Just checked the last entry and it was in December 2012... 2012 man.. What's the date today? It's 23rd of January 2014. hahaha..

So... What has been happening? Anything new?

Yeah!! I got a Handsome Baby Boy!! Woottss. He is 8 months old now. How time flies.. fly? lalat?
 Date of birth is 17th May 2013. My birthday is 17th June 1983. Close enough. I ask my boy to come out on the 17th June but he will be overdue hakhak... Then I ask him to wait one more day so he can still come out on the 17th .. 17th of May that is. hahaha.. He actually listened to ayah even still in his mama's womb. Sayang anak ayah. His name is Tengku Maqil Nafees bin Tengku Muzaffar.

Wow.. bin Tengku Muzaffar tu. hak hak..

Siap Jelir Lidah lagi..

Dudes and Dudettes.. i have to go to work now. so.... Later..